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| ©Kat Black |
On this Monday morning, we meet the Seven of Pentacles from the
Touchstone Tarot (Kunati, 2009).
A
woman stands, watering a pot with a slightly wilted pink flowered plant
in it. She wears a green cloak and a dusky rose blouse and scarf over
her head - reminding me of the
Girl with a Pearl Earring. Over her head hangs a vine with seven coins. There are more flowers in other pots, red and white.
It's interesting to have a woman in this card, and one in an
indoor setting. This speaks of the variety of ways in which we can
nurture something for the future.
During one of her talks, Rachel Pollack discussed the notion of
our Life Purpose. She said, what if we don't even know what our life
purpose is, what if it has nothing to do with our life or what we think
is our purpose? She gave the example of Paul Foster-Case, the founder
of
BOTA. Before he founded the
Builders of the Adytum, he worked in vaudeville. One day, someone back
stage wondered in passing where playing cards came from. It was a
question that was to lead Foster-Case to explore cards, the tarot, and
much other esoteric knowledge, and then offer that wisdom up to the
world in the form of a correspondence course. So Rachel said, perhaps
that casual commenter's life purpose was just to ask that question of
Foster-Case!
I see things somewhat differently. At another point in time,
Rachel talked about hating the question: "When will I meet my soul
mate?" She said: what an amazing assumption. Not just assuming that
you have a soul mate, but that you will meet them, that it's just a
question of when. Now, I'm with Rachel on this one - I don't believe in
"The One". I think that love is what we make of it, and that we might
have a soul mate or twin flame relationship, but that this kind of deep
connection is no guarantee that we'll wind up with that person. Or that
we might have more than one soul mate, or none at all (or at least
might not meet, or not recognise them).
What has this got to do with the question of life purpose, and
our woman in the Seven of Coins? Well, I think we don't necessarily
just have one life purpose. Yes, maybe the most historically
significant thing that person did was ask a random question of
Foster-Case. That doesn't invalidate, though, all the other things that
he did in his life. It doesn't mean that the purpose he saw in his
life wasn't valid or worthwhile. Maybe he also made a sick child smile,
reminded a man why he loved his wife, and wrote a really funny song.
Maybe he went on to be an insurance salesman and saved some poor widow
from starvation.
We may water many plants in our life.
Some will flourish, some may die. Only time will tell. And even then,
just because one plant goes on to be a famous ribbon winner, doesn't
invalidate the other plants we watered, even if they don't go down in
history. We might be most proud of the one that didn't make it, but
from which we learnt how best to nurture the ones that came after...
What
can you do today to make a difference? How can you appreciate your
past experiences? What would it be like not to know what others will
see as your greatest achievement?